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How to Maintain Healthy Eating Habits During the Holidays Without Sacrificing Your Progress

November 06, 20258 min read

The holiday season brings joy, celebration, and plenty of food-centered gatherings. For active adults committed to building muscle mass, improving bone density, and maintaining strength

training progress, navigating holiday nutrition can feel challenging. But here's the good news: you don't have to choose between enjoying the holidays and staying on track with your health goals.

At EXL Fitness, we work with adults throughout Orem/Pleasant Grove area who are focused on longevity, vibrant living, and maintaining the strength to do what they love for years to come. The strategies we share with our personal training clients during the holidays work because they're realistic, sustainable, and focused on long-term wellness rather than short-term restriction.

Why Holiday Nutrition Matters for Muscle Mass and Bone Health

When you're working hard in the gym to build lean muscle and increase bone density, consistent nutrition becomes your greatest ally. The holiday season typically spans six to eight weeks, which is enough time to either support your progress or set it back significantly.

For adults over 40, maintaining muscle mass and bone strength isn't just about aesthetics—it's about preserving your independence, energy levels, and quality of life. The protein you eat, the nutrients you consume, and how you fuel your body directly impact your ability to stay strong and active as you age.

The "80/20" Approach to Holiday Eating

Rather than adopting an all-or-nothing mentality, consider the 80/20 principle. This means making nutritious, muscle-supporting choices 80% of the time while allowing yourself to enjoy holiday treats and special meals the other 20%.

This approach works because it:

  • Reduces stress and guilt around food choices

  • Keeps your metabolism steady

  • Provides enough protein and nutrients to maintain muscle mass

  • Allows you to participate fully in holiday traditions

  • Prevents the restrict-binge cycle that derails many people

For most people, this might look like eating your regular, healthy meals during weekdays and being more flexible at weekend gatherings or special holiday events.

Prioritize Protein at Every Meal

Protein remains your most important macronutrient for maintaining and building muscle, especially as we age. Adults over 40 need more protein than younger people to achieve the same muscle-building response—a concept called anabolic resistance.

During the holidays, make protein your anchor:

  • Start every meal with a protein source (turkey, ham, fish, eggs, Greek yogurt, or lean beef)

  • Aim for 25-40 grams of protein per meal, depending on your body size and activity level

  • Don't let holiday desserts and appetizers crowd out protein-rich foods

  • Bring a protein-focused dish to gatherings to ensure you have good options

When you prioritize protein, you'll feel fuller longer, maintain your muscle mass, support bone density, and have less room for empty calories that don't serve your health goals.

Strategic Eating for Holiday Gatherings

Holiday parties and family dinners don't have to derail your progress. With a few strategic approaches, you can enjoy these events while supporting your strength training and longevity goals.

Before the event: Don't skip meals earlier in the day thinking you'll "save calories." This strategy almost always backfires, leading to overeating. Instead, eat your normal breakfast and lunch with plenty of protein and vegetables. You'll arrive at the gathering with stable blood sugar and better decision-making ability.

At the event: Survey all the food options before filling your plate. Choose the foods you genuinely want to enjoy, not just what's in front of you. Fill half your plate with vegetables, one-quarter with protein, and one-quarter with your favorite holiday dishes. Eat slowly, focus on conversation, and check in with your hunger levels before going back for seconds.

Hydration matters: Often we mistake thirst for hunger. Drink water throughout the day and between alcoholic beverages at events. Proper hydration supports muscle recovery, bone health, and helps you feel your best during workouts.

Managing Alcohol Without Sacrificing Your Goals

Alcohol can significantly impact your fitness progress. It disrupts sleep quality, impairs muscle recovery, dehydrates your body, and adds empty calories. For adults focused on longevity and maintaining strength, moderation becomes key.

Consider these approaches: alternate each alcoholic drink with a full glass of water, set a limit before attending events (such as two drinks maximum), choose lower-calorie options like wine or spirits with soda water, and don't feel pressured to drink at every gathering.

Remember, quality sleep is crucial for muscle recovery and bone density. Alcohol disrupts deep sleep patterns, which can undermine the hard work you're putting in during your functional training sessions.

Keep Your Exercise Routine Consistent

Nutrition and exercise work together to build the strong, vibrant body you're working toward. During the busy holiday season, maintaining your strength training routine becomes even more important.

Regular functional training sessions help: offset extra holiday calories, maintain muscle mass and metabolic rate, preserve bone density, reduce stress, and keep you feeling energized and mentally sharp.

If your schedule gets disrupted, shorter workouts are better than no workouts. A focused 30-minute session maintains your momentum and keeps your body in a muscle-building state. If you're searching for a "gym near me" in Utah Valley, our personal training approach at EXL Fitness in Orem and Pleasant Grove ensures every workout is tailored to your specific needs and fitness level, making it easier to stay consistent even during the busiest times of year.

Meal Prep: Your Secret Weapon

The biggest challenge during the holidays isn't the actual holiday meals—it's the chaotic weeks surrounding them when we're too busy to plan. This is when grab-and-go processed foods sneak into our diets and undermine our health goals.

Dedicate two hours each week to basic meal prep: cook several pounds of protein (grilled chicken, ground turkey, hard-boiled eggs), chop vegetables for easy snacking and quick meals, prepare a large batch of a healthy grain like quinoa or brown rice, and portion out healthy snacks like nuts, cheese, and fruit.

When you have healthy, protein-rich meals ready to eat, you're far less likely to make impulsive food choices that don't support your muscle-building and bone health goals.

Mindful Eating and the Power of Pause

Mindful eating isn't about restriction—it's about awareness. During holiday meals, practice pausing between bites, putting your fork down occasionally, and checking in with your actual hunger levels.

Ask yourself: Am I eating because I'm genuinely hungry, or because the food is simply available? Am I enjoying this food, or eating it out of habit or obligation? Do I feel satisfied, or am I eating past the point of comfortable fullness?

This awareness helps you enjoy holiday foods more fully while naturally eating amounts that serve your body rather than overwhelming it.

Focus on What You're Adding, Not Just Removing

Instead of fixating on all the foods you "can't" have during the holidays, focus on adding health-supporting foods to your diet. This positive mindset shift makes a significant difference in your success.

Add more: colorful vegetables to every meal (they support bone health and reduce inflammation), water throughout your day (essential for muscle function and recovery), fiber-rich foods (helps with satiety and blood sugar control), and anti-inflammatory foods like fattyfish, nuts, and olive oil (supports joint health for active living).

When you focus on abundance rather than restriction, healthy eating feels less like deprivation and more like self-care.

Give Yourself Grace and Get Back on Track Quickly

Even with the best intentions, you'll have days during the holidays when you eat more than planned or make choices that don't align with your health goals. This is entirely normal and doesn't erase your progress.

The difference between people who maintain their strength and health long-term and those who struggle isn't perfection—it's resilience. When you have an indulgent day, simply return to your regular healthy eating pattern at the very next meal. Don't wait until Monday, don't try to "make up for it" by restricting, and don't let one day turn into one week.

Your body responds to what you do consistently, not what you do occasionally. The occasional holiday indulgence has virtually no impact on your long-term muscle mass, bone density, or fitness level. It's the patterns you maintain most of the time that determine your results.

Looking Beyond the Holidays

The habits you practice during the holiday season set the tone for the entire year. When you prove to yourself that you can maintain healthy eating patterns even during challenging times, you build confidence in your ability to sustain these changes long-term.

For active adults committed to longevity and vibrant living, the holidays become an opportunity to practice balance rather than a threat to your progress. Working with a personal trainer who understands the unique challenges of maintaining fitness during busy seasons can make all the difference. The functional training work you're doing at the gym, combined with consistent nutrition habits, creates a foundation for strength and independence for decades to come.

Your Next Steps

The holiday season offers a perfect opportunity to demonstrate that healthy living doesn't mean missing out on life's celebrations. With strategic planning, consistent protein intake, and a balanced approach, you can enjoy this special time while continuing to build the strong, capable body that supports all the activities you love.

Whether you're currently training with us in Orem or Pleasant Grove, or you're just beginning to prioritize your health and fitness after years of putting it off, remember that every healthy choice you make contributes to your long-term vitality. Finding the right gym and personal trainer who understands your goals makes the journey more effective and sustainable. The investment you're making in your strength, bone density, and overall wellness will pay dividends in your quality of life for years to come.

Stay strong, stay consistent, and enjoy the holidays knowing you're taking care of the body that will carry you through many more celebrations ahead.


Ready to start building strength, improving bone density, and feeling more vibrant? EXL Fitness offers personalized functional training programs for adults throughout Utah County, with a convenient location on the border of Orem and Pleasant Grove. Our expert trainers specialize in helping adults over 40 achieve lasting health improvements and maintain the active lifestyle they love. Contact us today to learn how we can support your fitness and longevity goals.

Mat Gover is the founder of EXL Fitness & Performance in Utah Valley. , Mat studied athletic training at BYU and gained experience in physical therapy clinics before discovering his true calling in personal training. Since 2008, he's specialized in the "gray area" of fitness—helping clients navigate injuries that don't require formal PT and guiding others from post-rehab back to peak performance. Mat believes true success is measured in vitality: doing what you love with the people you love.

Mat Gover BS, CSCS

Mat Gover is the founder of EXL Fitness & Performance in Utah Valley. , Mat studied athletic training at BYU and gained experience in physical therapy clinics before discovering his true calling in personal training. Since 2008, he's specialized in the "gray area" of fitness—helping clients navigate injuries that don't require formal PT and guiding others from post-rehab back to peak performance. Mat believes true success is measured in vitality: doing what you love with the people you love.

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